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My Signature M.M. Pieces—and How to Identify Your Own

An exercise in recognizing your style preferences and improving your shopping habits.

By Emma Steinbergs

There’s a common thread amongst the M Dash stories that I’ve found the most delightful, interesting, and fulfilling to write: Rather than focusing solely on individual clothing items, my favorite articles are the ones that get philosophical about style itself. Whether I’m exploring the powerful effects of minor outfit tweaks or compiling my personal style rules in tandem with Maddie, I find that I always learn something new about myself when I’m asking existential questions about the process of getting dressed. 

In a recent effort to shop even more mindfully, I’ve been using this introspective lens to draw practical lessons from what’s already in my closet. Ironically, this has made me scrutinize individual items as I try to pinpoint the clothing qualities that make me feel most like myself—and, therefore, lead me to wear an item frequently. In other words, I’ve been asking myself, What are the makings of my “signature” pieces? What are those characteristics and features that signify that a piece both embodies my personal sense of style and fulfills my practical criteria?

The answer: To have signature-piece potential, an item must…

Fit just right (you can tell when an item was not designed on a real body)
☑ Be comfortable (no fussing allowed)
☑ Be neutral in color (or, at least, easy to mix and match with most of my closet)
☑ Have a silhouette or fabric that’s unique in some sense (something as simple as a slightly oversized silhouette qualifies)
☑ Not be overly “feminine” (too much flounce or floral pattern makes me feel like I’m wearing a costume)

Developing this list has empowered me to make more confident clothing purchases. I know that if I stick to pieces that check all of the boxes, there’s a very, very high probability that I’ll end up wearing the items I buy on a frequent basis for years to come.

Curious to see the pieces that informed this list? Below, you’ll find six examples of M.M. styles that have become signature staples in my wardrobe. The point of this story is not to convince you to buy them; but rather, by walking you through my signature pieces, I invite you to build a list of your own. My hope is that this exercise helps you identify something novel about your personal sense of style, and in the process, encourages more mindful shopping habits in your future. 

Shop all the looks from this story here.

Style #1

The Horton Pant

If I had to pick one type of item that has completely transformed my wardrobe in recent years, it would, without a doubt, be suit pants. You could say I’m in my tailored trousers era, but I’m confident that I’ll be wearing work pants beyond the office for years—no, decades—to come. I’m particularly partial to pants of the pleated variety (more on that soon), but my first love was the Horton pant. I first discovered their chameleon-like versatility back in the fall of 2022 and have since bought them in multiple colors (camel, black, and navy), because I reach for them so often. I adore the way their high rise provides a holds-you-in feeling that’s almost legging-adjacent, while their elegantly flared silhouette gives me the long legs I wish I had. You’ll find me wearing these with anything from a structured blazer and mules to a T-shirt and sneakers.

A note on alterations: Most of our trousers include extra hem allowance—to accommodate a wide range of heights—so at 5’6”, I had mine hemmed a couple of inches. When it comes to trousers, I’ve learned to just assume I’m going to have to alter them in one way or another, and when I don’t, I consider it a pleasant surprise. Tailoring is a small price to pay for pants that fit perfectly! Plus, when an item is machine-washable, I end up saving far more money on dry cleaning than I spend on alterations.

Use code FAVORITE to save 25% on select colors of the Horton—this weekend only.

Style #2

The Bia Pant

I cannot overstate how excited I was when I found out we’d be making the Bia pants in a second color. Initially released last fall, these double-pleated beauties have sold out several times over and are finally here in date—a gorgeous shade of brown the M.M. team has been drooling over ever since we saw the fabric swatch. I just ordered my pair last week (along with a few other favorites from our pre-fall collection), so I don’t have them quite yet, but here they are in our macaroon color. I love pleated pants’ ability to be dapper and effortless all at once, and I most often wear mine with T-shirts, crewneck sweaters, fitted knits, and oversized blazers. As with the Hortons, I had mine hemmed two inches.

Style #3

The O'Hara Blazer

In my opinion, a roomy blazer, like the O’Hara, ought to be on everyone’s list of most-worn items. Why? Because slightly oversized, subtly menswear-inspired styles fit over nearly any type of top (or dress) and add instant structure to your look. Plus, clean lines and impeccable tailoring look phenomenal on any body type. You can find a boyfriend blazer practically anywhere these days—whether you’re shopping at Zara or The Row—but I’ve never encountered one that’s simultaneously as high-quality, affordable, and non-constricting in the shoulders as our O’Hara blazer. The knit version pictured here is extra stretchy, but all versions are entirely movement-friendly.

Style #4

The Mila Button-Down

Another menswear-inspired piece I frequently incorporate into my outfits is the crisp, classic Mila button-down. Whether I’m styling it as an overshirt or wearing it all the way buttoned-up, it makes me feel like the chicest, most aspirational version of myself—like I’m one step closer to retiring early to spend my days pruning basil and auditing art history classes (the dream).  Although I’m drawn to minimalist, neutrally colored pieces, I prefer the Mila’s delicate stripes to a solid white version, as it looks a little less corporate and more visually interesting. Another important nuance here is that I roll up the sleeves most of the time. 9 times out of 10, an uncuffed button-down just feels a little too stuffy for my personal style.

Style #5

The Axam Turtleneck

Call me Diane Keaton, because I love myself a turtleneck. I’ve gushed about my Arbus sweaters for years, and I view my Axams as more dressed-up alternatives to my Paige tanks (one of which I’m wearing as I write this). Soft, stretchy, lightweight, and layerable, our ribbed pima cotton feels like a second skin. Combined with the Axam’s high-necked silhouette, it feels like you’re secretly wearing pajamas while looking outwardly elegant. I own the Axam in four of our pima cotton colors, and as of this spring, I have it in our kaleidoscope-printed jersey, too. I think its refined pattern and sleek texture make it equally as cozy and decidedly more fashion-forward. As with the cotton version, I like to balance out its fitted silhouette with a more relaxed bottom.

Style #6

The Milo Jean

As a fairly casual dresser and someone who feels most comfortable in pants, I would be remiss if I didn’t pick a jean as one of my signature items. Over the years, I’ve kissed a lot of frogs (tried on copious amounts of ill-fitting denim), so you can trust me when I say I have high standards when it comes to what makes a good jean. One of the best I’ve ever tried is our Milo jean, which has an ideal mix of stretch and structure—thanks to our Better Than Denim fabric—and features a flattering wide-leg, hip-skimming silhouette. Not being true denim, they’re on the polished end of the jean spectrum, so you can easily dress them up. Here, I’m wearing my Milos with a luxe jacket, a silk camisole (similar: Lisey), and a pair of sharp ankle boots.

Use code FAVORITE to save 25% on select colors of the Milo—this weekend only.

Shop all the looks from this story here.

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Emma Steinbergs

Emma is M.M.LaFleur's Brand Manager. She previously worked as an M.M. stylist and still loves thinking through styling challenges and solutions for customers.

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