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How to Wear Wide-Leg Jeans at Any Age

Does age impact the way we dress? I spoke with women from 24-65 to find out.

By Madeleine Kim

One of my favorite facts about M.M.LaFleur is that we have an even distribution of customers across ages 25-55. In other words: There are just as many 25-year-olds that love M.M. clothes as there are 55-year-olds. That’s pretty rare for a clothing brand, and as someone who prioritizes pieces with long shelf lives, I find it quite appealing. 

I have firsthand experience wearing M.M. through different seasons of life. I got my first M.M. item (the Dietrich jacket, for those of you who remember it!) in 2016, and I continue to wear it to this day. My style has evolved since then, but my favorite M.M. pieces have survived my many closet purges and remain core components of my wardrobe.

Inspired by this unique aspect of M.M. clothing, I decided to challenge myself to style our most popular item—the wide-leg Milo jeans—for different ages. I wanted to think about how I might wear my Milo jeans in the decades to come, but I also wanted to answer a question: Does age inform the way we dress, or is it truly just a number? 

To find out, I spoke with women ranging from 24-65 about their relationships with style and age. Based on my (admittedly small) survey, it seems that women consider their age as a component of their style, but the way that manifests is different for each individual. In other words, age is just one of the many factors that helps us hone our personal style. 

My experience of creating outfits for different age groups confirmed this finding: While the outfits you’ll see below were inspired by answers from the women I surveyed, I would personally wear all four of them at my current age (I’m 30). Age impacts style, but only because style is personal. At the end of the day, the only person who gets to decide what “age appropriate” looks like is you.

Shop all the outfits from this story here.

20s-40s

The textural Maja sweater is fashion-forward without being trendy and features lapels for a professional look. Thanks to our Better Than Denim fabric, the Milo jeans have a trouser-like vibe that’s ideal for the office. Jelly sandals and sculptural earrings give the outfit personality and playfulness that will carry you from work to weekend.

The women I spoke with in their 20s shared a desire to hone their professional style. Angie, a 24-year-old merchandising coordinator, has opted for a more polished look in recent years. “As I have gotten older and entered my professional life, I find myself trying to look fashion-forward and put-together at the same time,” she says. “I now take a lot more care in my appearance before leaving the house than I did in my college years.” Maddie, a 24-year-old e-commerce coordinator, says she’s had to “mature” her wardrobe: “[In college], my weekday outfits were athleisure/loungewear and weekend outfits were very trendy. Now, I try to create a capsule wardrobe to wear any day of the week.” 

Lisa, a 58-year-old real estate agent, recalls a similar experience. “When I entered the workforce in my early 20s, I always dressed very professionally and conservatively and older than my age,” she says. “I wanted to convey that I knew what I was doing.” For our brand manager, Emma, who is 31, getting older has meant gaining confidence about what she likes wearing. “When I was in college and my early 20s, I subconsciously forced myself to participate in trends that, looking back, did not suit me,” she says. “I’m now much more wary of trends and time-test them before making a potential purchase. I do indulge in an occasional fad-ish piece, but time has taught me that good style has nothing to do with trends.”

30s-50s

Luxurious, classic styles like the Larissa sweater, Milo jeans, and O’Hara blazer are wardrobe staples you’ll wear for years. The Everly belt breaks up the monochromatic silhouette and mixed-metal earrings add shine. Incorporate a fun trend like colorful mesh flats, or opt for sneakers or loafers

I turned 30 last year, and the biggest change in my style now versus in my early 20s is the sense of clarity I feel. I know what I like, and, importantly, I also know what I don’t like. This doesn’t mean I never participate in trends; it just means I’m selective about them, and when I do incorporate of-the-moment styles into my wardrobe (hello, gorgeous mesh flats), I pair them with forever staples like my Milo jeans and Larissa sweater.  

Callie, a 41-year-old VP of brand & creative, sees age as just one “filter” in determining what to wear. “I don’t think age has impacted the way I dress to a huge degree, but there are times I think through whether or not something is ‘age appropriate,’ and that’s usually when it comes to fit or trendiness,” she says. “Sometimes, it’s just about adjusting the trend to my own style or age group. My personal style has stayed fairly consistent over time, but I think I’ve become somewhat more minimal and classic as I’ve gotten older. I’ve learned that if something isn’t comfortable or doesn’t fit me right, I’ll rarely end up wearing it, so it’s not worth purchasing.”

40s-60s

Opting for a fitted top like the Jett helps balance out the wide-leg silhouette of the Milo jeans, while the slightly oversized Tyner jacket adds cool factor and professionalism. Black sneakers give the look a slightly more casual vibe, and a sleek belt and fun earrings make your outfit feel complete.

The longer you live, the clearer it becomes that (fashion) history repeats itself. Today, some people think of wide-leg jeans as a Gen Z trend, but the women I spoke to proved that the style is for everyone. “I wore the original wide-leg jeans as a kid in the 70s,” says Lisa. “We called them bell bottoms. I also wore them when they came back in style in the 90s and were all low-rise, and now, I’m enjoying their renewed popularity in a higher-waisted style.” 

“I wear wide-leg jeans all the time,” says Callie. “I actually have three pairs of Milo jeans in different colors. To me, they’re an ideal wide-leg jean, because they hug my waist and butt and just have more volume in the leg, which means they don’t overwhelm my petite frame. They’re also super stretchy, and I like that I can adjust the hemline so I can wear them with different types of shoes. I usually try to wear them with something slimmer and more streamlined on top to balance the proportion, but occasionally, I’ll play with a fully oversized look.”

50s-70s+

For head-to-toe comfort, pair the Milo jeans with the buttery soft Chana T-shirt and the stretchy Jolie jardigan. This outfit gets its personality from fun touches like the tee’s punchy purple color, the bold Shay earrings, and the sleek knit Zelda boots.

Most of the women I interviewed said they see age as a factor in getting dressed, but not always in the way you might assume. “I’ve never been one to dress young for my age, and I’ve always preferred a more formal look in the workplace,” explains Lisa. “But now that I’m getting older (and my clients are getting younger), I’m making a conscious effort to dress more informally, which I associate with a ‘younger’ look. My go-to outfits are a pair of excellent-fitting pants, most often in black, (I have multiples of the Foster pant, Sammataro jeans, Horton pant, and Smith pant), a base layer, and either an M.M. jardigan or one of my Moreland jackets. It’s a simple formula that can be dressed up or down with shoes and accessories, can be adapted for any weather or season, and travels well.” 

Julie, a 65-year-old office manager, says that while she’s retired pieces like micro-shorts from her wardrobe, she still has fun with her style: “I’ve always paid attention to trends, but I often tone them down. No leopard dresses for me, but a leopard belt, shoe, or bag feels really great at my age.” Julie also proves that you can always incorporate new silhouettes into your rotation: She just got her first-ever pair of wide-leg jeans! Naturally, she went with the Milo.

Shop all the outfits from this story here.

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Madeleine Kim

Madeleine Kim is the Senior Brand Manager at M.M.LaFleur, where she started out as a stylist. She loves developing styling-focused content and creating newsletters that bring the M.M. community together.

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